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My last relationship was toxic. How can I prepare to date again?
My last relationship was toxic. How can I prepare to date again?
Melissa FabelloFebruary 1, 2026
Decentering men has completely changed my life. Here's how.
Decentering men has completely changed my life. Here's how.
Melissa FabelloJanuary 26, 2026
How do you tell the difference between intuition and trauma?
How do you tell the difference between intuition and trauma?
Melissa FabelloNovember 22, 2025
Is non-monogamy just giving your partner permission to cheat?
Is non-monogamy just giving your partner permission to cheat?
Melissa FabelloNovember 10, 2025
Yes, Taylor Swift is racist—just not the kind you think she is.
Yes, Taylor Swift is racist—just not the kind you think she is.
Melissa FabelloOctober 11, 2025
What does my avoidant partner want me to know?
What does my avoidant partner want me to know?
Melissa FabelloOctober 7, 2025
Sabrina Carpenter is our favorite man-hating feminist. But is that a good thing?
Sabrina Carpenter is our favorite man-hating feminist. But is that a good thing?
Melissa FabelloSeptember 14, 2025
Help! How do I stop spiraling over my ex?
Help! How do I stop spiraling over my ex?
Melissa FabelloSeptember 8, 2025
I'm bisexual and newly out. How do I conquer queer imposter syndrome?
I'm bisexual and newly out. How do I conquer queer imposter syndrome?
Melissa FabelloJuly 3, 2025
Is the new Sabrina Carpenter album cover art feminist?
Is the new Sabrina Carpenter album cover art feminist?
Melissa FabelloJune 16, 2025
Why do I find dating apps so f*cking exhausting?
Why do I find dating apps so f*cking exhausting?
Melissa FabelloMay 2, 2025
Why is femme4femme dating so f*cking hard?
Why is femme4femme dating so f*cking hard?
Melissa FabelloApril 21, 2025
What does it mean to decenter men—and how do I do it?
What does it mean to decenter men—and how do I do it?
Melissa FabelloApril 4, 2025
Astrologically, it's time to reflect on your love life. What Qs should you ask?
Astrologically, it's time to reflect on your love life. What Qs should you ask?
Melissa FabelloMarch 21, 2025
Love isn't 'blind,' but can we learn from this Netflix show?
Love isn't 'blind,' but can we learn from this Netflix show?
Melissa FabelloMarch 6, 2025
Why is it so hard to make friends in adulthood?
Why is it so hard to make friends in adulthood?
Melissa FabelloFebruary 24, 2025
I'm depressed, but still wanna show up—how?
I'm depressed, but still wanna show up—how?
Melissa FabelloFebruary 11, 2025
My anxious attachment hurts my partner. How do I stop spiraling?
My anxious attachment hurts my partner. How do I stop spiraling?
Melissa FabelloDecember 27, 2024
I believe in accountability. But how do I do it?
I believe in accountability. But how do I do it?
Melissa FabelloDecember 15, 2024
I'm bisexual and polyamorous, but only want to date women. Is that okay?
I'm bisexual and polyamorous, but only want to date women. Is that okay?
Melissa FabelloNovember 30, 2024
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⋇⋆✦⋆⋇ JANUARY 2026 | BOOKS 1-5 ⋇⋆✦⋆⋇ #mfbooklist2026 #readthis #bookstagram
🧿 George Orwell, 1984 🧿 I’ve seen one particular quote from “1984” floating around (see slide ten), but the truth is that the whole book is apt. Here are some other quotes that struck me as perfectly describing the government.
For my newsletter, New Romantics, I wrote about seven ways that decentering men (or divesting from patriarchy in my interpersonal life) has impacted me. From my relationship with my body to my friends to the idea of masculinity itself, deprioritizing
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This past weekend was my 41st birthday. 🎉 So I reflected on the past year and the things I did that make me happy, proud, or accomplished – the memories and the vibes I want to carry into 41 (and 2026). 🍰
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