The Relational Is Political | Dr. Melissa A. Fabello

Is it bad to be bisexual and heteroromantic? The answer is complicated.

Is it bad to be bisexual and heteroromantic? The answer is complicated.

Melissa FabelloJune 11, 2026

I'm a bisexual woman. Can I bring my cishet boyfriend to Pride?

I'm a bisexual woman. Can I bring my cishet boyfriend to Pride?

Melissa FabelloJune 2, 2026

I'm attracted to trans mascs, but don't want to be a chaser. How can I check myself?

I'm attracted to trans mascs, but don't want to be a chaser. How can I check myself?

Melissa FabelloMay 29, 2026

Call me a manhating dyke if you want to. It only exposes your discontent with patriarchy.

Call me a manhating dyke if you want to. It only exposes your discontent with patriarchy.

Melissa FabelloMay 18, 2026

How can I be a better friend? I've got some ideas!

How can I be a better friend? I've got some ideas!

Melissa FabelloApril 8, 2026

Polyamory doesn't come easily for everyone. That doesn't make it wrong.

Polyamory doesn't come easily for everyone. That doesn't make it wrong.

Melissa FabelloApril 2, 2026

I'm ready to start dating women as a bisexual. What should I know first?

I'm ready to start dating women as a bisexual. What should I know first?

Melissa FabelloFebruary 16, 2026

My last relationship was toxic. How can I prepare to date again?

My last relationship was toxic. How can I prepare to date again?

Melissa FabelloFebruary 1, 2026

Decentering men has completely changed my life. Here's how.

Decentering men has completely changed my life. Here's how.

Melissa FabelloJanuary 26, 2026

How do you tell the difference between intuition and trauma?

How do you tell the difference between intuition and trauma?

Melissa FabelloNovember 22, 2025

Is non-monogamy just giving your partner permission to cheat?

Is non-monogamy just giving your partner permission to cheat?

Melissa FabelloNovember 10, 2025

Yes, Taylor Swift is racist—just not the kind you think she is.

Yes, Taylor Swift is racist—just not the kind you think she is.

Melissa FabelloOctober 11, 2025

What does my avoidant partner want me to know?

What does my avoidant partner want me to know?

Melissa FabelloOctober 7, 2025

Sabrina Carpenter is our favorite man-hating feminist. But is that a good thing?

Sabrina Carpenter is our favorite man-hating feminist. But is that a good thing?

Melissa FabelloSeptember 14, 2025

Help! How do I stop spiraling over my ex?

Help! How do I stop spiraling over my ex?

Melissa FabelloSeptember 8, 2025

I'm bisexual and newly out. How do I conquer queer imposter syndrome?

I'm bisexual and newly out. How do I conquer queer imposter syndrome?

Melissa FabelloJuly 3, 2025

Is the new Sabrina Carpenter album cover art feminist?

Is the new Sabrina Carpenter album cover art feminist?

Melissa FabelloJune 16, 2025

Why do I find dating apps so f*cking exhausting?

Why do I find dating apps so f*cking exhausting?

Melissa FabelloMay 2, 2025

Why is femme4femme dating so f*cking hard?

Why is femme4femme dating so f*cking hard?

Melissa FabelloApril 21, 2025

What does it mean to decenter men—and how do I do it?

What does it mean to decenter men—and how do I do it?

Melissa FabelloApril 4, 2025